A house is like a great piece of music. It takes years of incubation, thoughts and dreams. It invites you in to experience all it has to offer. It’s engaging and sustaining. It pulls on the greats of the past while being influenced by the ones of the present. In the end, you hold out a part of yourself for the world to experience for generations.
a home.
The connection between people and their homes are deep and multifaceted, transcending physical structures and embracing the interplay of memories, identity, and a sense of belonging. “Home” is not simply a place; it’s a sanctuary where the tapestry of life is woven.
I grew up in a family of seven and distinctly remember the rooms, colors and furniture engrained with emotional experiences. The hardwood was lovingly worn from the continual foot travel throughout the circulation spaces. Our kitchen and dining were connected and life took place in this beloved space. We had a formal living room where toys were cleaned up every day, china was kept behind glass doors, and my mom would sit and read when she wasn’t being pulled in six opposing directions. Juxtapose this to the informal living room. Toys were left scattered, siblings argued over games, and the furniture was well worn. Each room echoes with laughter, tears and the quiet moments that defined our experiences. Our homes give testimony to the family milestones, joys and sorrows that shape us.
In part, this is why I chose to design and build homes. A home becomes an extension of its inhabitants, mirroring personalities and providing an expression for identity. Choices made in the architecture, layout, finishes, and decoration reflect individual preferences, values and cultural influences. This alignment between personal identity and physical space influences the deep emotional bond that surpasses basic sheltering needs.
Often when I walk into a home, I see the spaces that are more loved than others. I notice the finger streaks as the kids ran through the hallway and the marks against the door where the dog wanted back in the house. These cannot be replicated in a new home but can be designed to foster the sense of belonging, creating space for new and lasting memories.
Recalling and savoring these memories are wonderful and needed, but I’m also a fan of the “so what” question… the practical application. Or as a friend of mine puts it, “What does this look like on Monday morning?”
Be intentional.
Take time.
Turn the screens off and engage with kids, siblings, friends, and parents.
Play a game.
Start a puzzle.
Or draw inspiration from my daughter’s current muse and craft miniature models of houses (currently a tree house she built – see image).
Create these experiences and let us know what your imagination is launching you into!
Post by: Kent Mylin